January 1, 2021 Brethren Letter

Dear Brethren,

Last week I sent out a Brethren Letter addressed to married men that I had written in 2010. This week, I am resending the second part of that series as I addressed our married women in the Church.

Please have wonderful Sabbath!

Your Brother in Christ,

Gary Liebold


November 5, 2010

Dear Brethren,

Considering last week’s Bible study on the subject of “marriage”, I’ve decided to forward more of my notes covering the parts of the subject we have gone over so far. That way, if you would like to have everything in one folder, it should make things a little easier.

Your Brother in Christ,

Gary Liebold


Genesis 2:23-24

23And Adam said: “This is now bone of my bones And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man.” 24Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

Ephesians 5:30-32

30For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. 31“For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church.

Verse by Verse Description of

Proverbs 31:10-31

a) Vs. 10-12: whoever marries such a woman knows her worth is VERY great. (More precious than rubies) Her husband can trust her to do tasks the way he wants it done (he must ask for an opinion, But even if not, do it his way) The converted wife will do her husband good; will support and uphold him!

b) Vs 13: A wife should know which fabrics are good and long lasting

c) Vs. 14: Be a bargain hunter and buy better foods for the family

d) Vs. 15: Wife arises early – is not idle, nor wastes time

e) Vs. 16: Has business sense, knows an opportunity, capable of making decisions. Plants a garden and tends it.

f) Vs. 17: Works vigorously

g) Vs. 18-19: has experience and knows her decisions and works are good – she is very hospitable. Capable seamstress with ability.

h) Vs. 20: Shows open-handed generosity – very giving, with balance

i) Vs.21-22: Always makes sure her family has warm and appropriate clothing for the weather, and she herself dresses as nicely as possible, without trying to outdo anyone else

j) Vs. 23: The inspiration of a converted wife helps him to grow enough to sit with “the elders” of “the gate”

k) Vs. 24-25: Her merchandise is so fine, it sells and brings in extra money. Important thing is her CHARACTER. She needs not worry, for she has prepared for the future.

l) Vs. 26: Virtuous woman has common sense, wisdom, and speaks correctly – keeping the well-being of individuals in mind

m) Vs. 27: She is not idle! Her children respect her and her husband. Also she is worthy of this love, respect and pride

n) Vs. 28-30 a graceful exterior is no measure of a woman’s character. “Beauty is only skin deep”. Seek advice from ladies older than you. They have a greater store of knowledge. Remember too – Talk to God, Pray & Study DAILY!

o) Vs. 31: Give her credit men, for what she accomplishes! This is very important!!!!! Prov 31:31 Praise her for the many fine things she does. These good deeds of hers shall bring her honor and recognition from people of importance. (TLB)

Ambassador College Notes: (A Wife’s Role)

Summary of The Virtuous Woman:

This woman is strong – physically and in character. She has a serenity, which can come only from effective planning, diligent effort and consistently good personal habits. She has learned well the art of loving and supporting her husband in any situation, from intimate to public. She can feel confident in her own and family’s appearance because she has learned the secret of combining quality with best looks. She has mastered the household arts well enough that there is time for perfecting skills which bring monetary reward – thus increasing her family’s quality of life. She is not totally wrapped up in only personal or family affairs – she helps out those who are less blessed. Obviously, her home and family reflect her own character because their appreciation is spontaneous. But most important, she knows that true femininity rests upon her relationship with God – not on physical appearance or behavior.

Summary of Woman’s Role to Help Her Husband

A) Important Qualities

1) Whole-hearted loyalty

2) Devotion to the marriage

3) Don’t let your potentials and talents go to waste

4) Develop your interests and support his

5) Have your heart fully in God’s way of life

6) Work together as a team

7) Support and back his decisions

8) Share emotions

9) Be in background (not to lead)

10) Be obedient; in subjection

11) Good manager

12) Give

13) Thank God for your husband

14) Be grateful for your children

15) Be positive!

B) Hindrances to Avoid

1) Neglecting the positive

2) Letting down on what God expects of you

3) Taking things for granted

4) Disagreeing or arguing in public

5) Refusing to entertain guests

6) Griping

7) Confronting him w/ problems constantly

8) Having no interest in his activities

9) Staying in bed sleeping with little accomplished


By Herbert W. Armstrong

1964, 1971, 1981 edition

The FAMILY relationship demands the HUSBAND-AND-WIFE relationship! And that demands MARRIAGE, and faithfulness to that matrimonial bond … there is also the divine MARRIAGE relationship!

Now UNDERSTAND! The husband-and-wife relationship, and the family relationship, are God-plane relationships! What a WONDERFUL PRIVILEGE to be HUMANS — to be given the MARRIAGE relationship now, but later to marry Christ and become part of the GOD FAMILY!

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